Archive for October, 2008

Oct 31 2008

Photo Friday: 6 Carseats in a Minivan

I know this isn’t a typical travel photo, but since all of our journeys are done by car, carseats are a big part of our life.

As a child passenger safety technician, (CPST or “carseat tech”), I love to play around with different seat combinations to see what can fit.

This past spring, a friend and I went on an adventure together. We had my four kids and her two girls, with an age range of 2-7, and I was delighted that I could get them all into our Toyota Sienna safely.

3rd Row of Sienna

In the back row, I had my 5-year-old in a Britax Husky, her 5-year-old in a Fisher Price Safe Voyage Deluxe, and her 3-year-old in a Cosco Scenera.

Middle Row of Sienna

In the middle row, I had my 7-year-old in a Britax Parkway booster (which we took out at each stop for 3rd-row access), my 2-year-old rear-facing in a Britax Marathon, and my 4-year-old in a forward-facing Britax Marathon.

The brands of the seats aren’t so important for safety, but the types of seats are. Kids in harnessed seats are safer in a crash than kids in boosters, so even the three kids who would meet the requirements for riding in a booster were in harnessed seats. Infants and toddlers are safer rear-facing than forward-facing until they meet the height and/or weight limits of the seat, so my youngest remained rear-facing until she met the weight limit at age 2 1/2. And although my seven-year-old has long since passed the requirements of Minnesota for being in a child restraint, he will remain in a booster until he meets the 5-step test for fitting a regular seatbelt.

Each of the seats in this configuration had a good independent install, meaning that although it might have been touching another seat, it was still securely installed when the other seats were removed.

Are you wondering if your children’s carseats are installed correctly, or if they’re in the right type of seat, or if you have them harnessed properly? The best way to be sure is to have your seats checked by a CPST to be sure your kids are as safe as they can be.

To see more Photo Friday fun (and more exciting pictures than the ones I’ve offered today!), head over to DeliciousBaby.

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Oct 30 2008

10 Tips for a Trip to the Hospital

Published by minnemom under Children

Our latest little adventure isn’t the kind of trip any of us plans with our kids: a trip to the hospital. My five-year-old son was feeling under the weather yesterday, so I took him to the doctor. He was diagnosed with pneumonia and admitted to the hospital.

Unfortunately, I’ve been a hospital mom a few times before. Fortunately, all were short stays and our kids made full recoveries. For those who haven’t had a child hospitalized before, here are some things I’ve learned:

  1. Trust your parent instincts. If your kids are sick, you usually know when to take them to the doctor. Likewise, you’ll probably have a gut feeling that they’re going to need to be hospitalized.
  2. Keep a toiletry bag packed at home at all times. Mine’s always packed for overnight trips, with extras of all my daily necessities. When I had to call home and tell my husband what things to bring, I didn’t have to list individual items, just to grab my black bag.
  3. Sometimes it seems like things in the hospital move very slowly, especially the admissions process. Even though I’d answered a bunch of pre-admission questions, it still took over an hour to get fully settled in our room and for the nurses to get everything set up and entered in the computer for our stay.
  4. If you need something, ask for it. Don’t suffer in silence, thinking you’ll interrupt the nurses. Be polite but assertive in what you need.
  5. You’ll probably only see your doctor for a few minutes each day, so write down any questions or issues you need addressed by the doctor so you’re ready when they make their rounds.
  6. The nurses will be taking care of the day-to-day care. Ask questions and pay attention to what they do so that you can best participate in your child’s care.
  7. Find someone to take over the care of your other children so you can concentrate on your sick one and not worry about the details at home.
  8. Convertible chair-beds aren’t the most comfortable, but they’ll do in a pinch so that you can stay with your child overnight.
  9. Try to find out what time various people will be stopping by the room, so you don’t step out at a bad time. At our hospital, lab personnel, respiratory therapists, and doctors usually come early in the morning. A shower can wait until later.
  10. If it’s quiet and your child is resting, get some sleep yourself. You never know if you’ll get a good night’s rest the next night.

My son seems to be doing well, and hopefully we’ll go home later today or tomorrow morning. Right now, he’s enjoying playing with the controls on his bed, so I can tell he’s feeling better than yesterday.

Hospital-veteran parents, do you have any tips to add to this list?

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Oct 30 2008

Finding More Fun, 10/30/2008

Here’s this week’s edition of tips for traveling with kids and places that look interesting to visit. There are even a few cheap and free deals this time around!

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Oct 28 2008

A few little things . . .

Published by minnemom under Travel

You may have noticed that I’ve had some links to posts at Uptake.com.  I’m writing some blog posts there, along with some other talented travel writers.  If you’d like to keep up with those posts, by me and the others, please go to the Attractions Blog at Uptake, and subscribe if you’re so inclined.  (There’s actually a tangible benefit for me to have subscribers to that particular blog, but I won’t resort to begging!)    I’ll continue to post updates here when I have new content on Uptake as well.  My latest post there was At the Spam Museum.

If you feel your blog has great content but is under-appreciated, or if you’d like to find more readers, check out the interesting project over at Chuck Westbrook’s blog.  By investing a little time in reading others’ blogs, you may reap the benefits of additional readers as well.  And you might find some great new content along the way!

I’ve added Thursday link roundups recently.  While I hope these are useful to you, my readers, they’re also helpful for me in organizing places I’d like to visit in the future.  I hope you find some interesting ideas in these “Finding More Fun” posts.

That’s all for now.  Have a great evening, everyone!

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Oct 27 2008

I missed my blog’s first birthday!

Published by minnemom under Children, Travel, family travel

birthday cake

October 14 came and went without me noticing that it was the first birthday of this site.  It’s hard (for me, anyway) to believe that Travels with Children is a year old.  Like a child, it started out small and has been growing and changing since its first day.  If you happen across an older post, you’ll see that the format is slightly different now.  The appearance has changed a few times.  Guest writers have added geographic variety.

Still, the goal is the same.  I love sharing the adventures I take with my kids, and I hope you enjoy reading about them.  If it has inspired you to take your kids out when you’d rather stay home, led you drive the backroads instead of the shortest route, or helped you to find a new place to visit with your kids, that’s just icing on the cake.  The birthday cake, that is!

If you’d care to look back with me, here are some of the earliest posts, from a year ago.

Whether you’ve been reading Travels with Children since the beginning or have just found it, I thank you for stopping by.  If you have suggestions for the site, or would like to write a guest post, please let me know.  Don’t be afraid to leave a comment on any of the posts; they’re always interesting to read.

It’s been a great first year, and I look forward to seeing what the next one brings!

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Oct 25 2008

A Boo-tiful Day

I hadn’t left the house since Monday except for one meeting and one preschool pickup, so with hubby still in the field working long hours, I asked his blessing to take the kids to St. Paul. On our agenda: three “boo” activities.

I had read about the ZooBoo event at St. Paul’s Como Zoo, and when researching it as an outing, I came across a post at minnmoms.com about Grand Avenue’s Boo Bash. At the bottom of the Grand Avenue brochure, Boo-ology at the Science Museum of Minnesota was mentioned. All three were come-in-costume, trick-or-treat activities, and the times actually looked workable: Boo Bash from 10-2, Boo-ology from 1-4, and ZooBoo from 4:30-7:30.

After supper last night, we scrambled for costumes so we’d be ready bright and early for the two-hour drive to St. Paul. The kids were up before our alarms went off, so apparently they were looking forward to the day. I had in the car a caped person of some sort, a red M&M (ironic since he’s allergic to peanuts and can’t eat M&M’s), a princess (likely Cinderella), and a cow (or calf, as her older brothers liked to specify). I was either a scarecrow or the cow’s farmer, depending on who looked at me. (Raiding hubby’s closet was a last-minute move, and it actually worked out pretty well.)

We got to the parking garage at Victoria and Grand just after 10:00 and headed to the Red Balloon Bookshop, where author Rick Chrustowski would be reading from his new book, Big Brown Bat, at 10:30. What a delight! He not only read from the book, but answered audience questions about his start in illustrating, why he writes children’s books, and how he does his drawings, but did a drawing of a bat on the spot and gave it away to one of the children. He was entertaining to watch and listen to, and it was a great start to our day.

Rick Chrustowski drawing 4

Then we headed east down Grand Avenue, stopping in businesses that had trick-or-treating signs. Segments of the route were quite crowded, and I was glad we had decided to leave the stroller in the car. Not that keeping four kids corralled and remembering sidewalk courtesy was easy, but the stroller would definitely have complicated things. We ended up walking as far as Hamline Street before heading back on the other side. I don’t know exactly how far that is, but the round-trip took us 3 1/2 hours. At 60 degrees and sunny, it was a beautiful day for a walk.

Music lights at Science Museum

Buckled into carseats and the go-ahead given to eat a few treats, we wound our way down Summit Avenue to the Science Museum, where there were several activities and treat stations in the entrance area. Inside the museum galleries, they weren’t handing out treats like they had last year at the Science Center of Iowa, but they had some good activities going on. The kids participated in a costume contest, and there was a very entertaining “Spooky but not Scary” magic show that garnered a lot of smiles and laughter from both the kids and adults in the audience.

At 4:00, we moved toward the parking lot for the trip to Como Zoo. We drove through the Como Parkand past the zoo, but instead of parking far away and walking to the zoo, we kept going toward the fairgrounds to the free park-and-ride lot. There we were met with a line of about 150 people waiting to board school buses. I quickly calculated the number of buses we had already met en route, the fact that it was just 4:30 and the crowd would continue to grow, and the price of admission, and broke the news to the kids that we were going to change our plans. I’ll brave a lot, but a big crowd of people, most in costume; four kids and one set of adult eyes and hands; and darkness not far off were enough for me to back out. Sure, I went to the state fair with the kids and we did fine, but that was in broad daylight.

I broke the news to the kids, and we were all disappointed, but we agreed that we’d already done two things today that were a lot of fun. The promise of supper in the immediate future helped to curb their disappointment.

By the time we got home, three of the four were asleep and ready to drop into bed. (I actually really enjoy it when that happens; it’s so sweet to carry them in the house half-asleep and tuck them right in.) I told my youngest, who was awake, “You were a good little cow today,” to which she replied, “Trick or treat!” A treat it was indeed to spend such a nice day, once again, with my little ones.

Did I make the right decision in not going to the zoo? Have you done any fun Halloween-before-Halloween activities with your kids?

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Oct 25 2008

When in Eveleth, see the World’s Largest Hockey Stick

One thing I enjoy about traveling is seeing the roadside oddities that have sprung up.  As a child, it was  exciting to see the giant buffalo in Jamestown, ND, or the cow, Salem Sue, in New Salem, ND, or even the prairie chicken in Rothsay, MN.  I’ve seen the twine ball in Darwin, MN, the snowmobiling turtle in Bottineau, ND, the Jolly Green Giant in Blue Earth, MN, and of course, Paul Bunyan and Babe in Bemidji, MN.  Quirky as these roadside giants may be, there’s something endearing about them.  As a kids, it’s exciting just to see things literally larger than life.  And as an adult, it makes me wonder, “Who thought of this, and saw it through to completion? And how many people have come to see it?”

So it was that we were in Eveleth, Minnesota, on the “Iron Range.”  I had done my homework, and had a list of museums and attractions, complete with their hours of operation and admission prices, just in case we had a little free time.

And we did.

We turned off the main road and headed toward downtown Eveleth.  We had the GPS turned on, but we didn’t need it because there were signs pointing the way, the way to . . . the world’s largest hockey stick!

Yes, it was big.  A real-life, honest-to-goodness, Christian Brothers hockey stick, mounted on a stand on a street corner in downtown Eveleth.

Hockey Stick

I got out of the car to take a picture, standing across the street to get the whole thing in my camera window.  The kids, inside the car, ooohed and ahhhed about it, and then came their question.  (Kids are always thinking, aren’t they?)  IS THAT THE WORLD’S LARGEST PUCK TOO?

Do you have a favorite roadside attraction? Do you think big concrete (and wood) things are fun, or just plain strange?

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Oct 24 2008

Photo Friday: Fall Colors in Minnesota

I can’t resist a few more fall photos, as the leaves are now falling fast and soon we’ll have gray and white surrounding us instead of red, yellow, and orange. We had some great fall trips around Minnesota this year, and saw a lot of beauty on the backroads.

While we were waiting for our tour at Mystery Cave, the kids played a game of hide-and-seek in the park.
Kids hide-and-seek

This scene near Mystery Cave was beautiful, with the field already harvested, and the farm in the background.
Fall near Preston MN

This is the creek that runs past (and sometimes into) Mystery Cave.
Mystery Cave creek

And here’s the view of the river from the Historic Forestville Carnegie bridge.
Forestville river

To see more travel photos, head over to DeliciousBaby and check out Photo Friday.

Did you see any great fall colors this year? Is it still pretty where you are, or have the leaves all fallen off by now?

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Oct 23 2008

Once Upon a Time . . .

Published by minnemom under Travel

Once upon a time, there was a girl who grew up in a tiny little town in North Dakota.  (She’ll laugh at all of you who think your towns of 5,000 or 10,000 or 15,000 people are “small,” as her hometown had a mere 76 residents, all of whom she could list on a map of the village if asked.)

North Dakota town 2

She went off to college, not too far from home, and then traveled far across the Midwest to Indiana for a year of graduate school. While in the Hoosier state, she explored such interesting places as Columbus and Nashville and Story and Broadripple.  After she completed her degree, she became a school librarian in Iowa, which is really much nicer than most non-Iowans make it out to be.

While in Iowa, she found interesting places to visit as well.  The outlet mall in Williamsburg, which although perhaps not so interesting, was at least a novelty for her.  The tulip festival in Pella.  Sabula and Savannah and Galena, Illinois. An art gallery in Maquoketa and the art museum in Davenport and the ice cream parlor in Wilton, all of these were places that she traveled.  Her school friends would just shake their heads on Monday mornings when they asked where she’d been on her solo travels, for many of them had never been to these places, even though they’d lived there for many years.  (They also recommended that she get a cell phone, which not everyone had in those days, but they were good friends who looked out for her, and they worried lest something should happen to her while on the road.)

Then one day she drove to Minnesota for a wedding, a family wedding, her cousin’s wedding.  And there, among the brothers who were groomsmen, she found one who would dance with her.  They danced the night away, and soon her weekend travels were to Minnesota instead, where he lived, and now with a companion she went to such places as the Harkin Store and the Renaissance Festival and Hermann the German.

Sometimes he would come to Iowa as well, and she would pull him along on adventures to the Amish and antique stores in Kalona and wine-tasting in the Amana Colonies and the Old Broom Factory in Cedar Falls.

Soon he decided that too many miles were being put onto their vehicles, and he proposed.  She gladly accepted, and they were married in the church in that tiny little town in North Dakota.  The population of the town grew five-fold that day as friends and family celebrated with them, and the cousin whose wedding she had attended a year earlier was now her sister-in-law.

They had decided to honeymoon in a secret location, somewhere neither of them had been before.  (Always practical, they had left sealed envelopes with their parents to be opened only in case of emergency.)  Making their way through Bemidji and Brainerd and Anoka to the airport in Minneapolis, they flew off into the East, landing in Boston and then heading north.  They had booked one of the most romantic hotels they could find, in the small town of Jackson, New Hampshire, and yes, even she considered that town to be small.  Here they saw the local sights, waterfalls and woods with no mosquitoes and old men in the mountains and the windiest place on earth, as if she’d never known wind on those prairies of North Dakota.

They continued their journey east, to Bar Harbor, Maine, where again they found a beautiful romantic place to stay, with a beautiful romantic restaurant and unique little shops and ice cream stands and a tour of an island spelled “Desert” but pronounced “dessert.”

When their allotted time had come to an end, they headed back to the airport, taking the back roads as much as possible, because the traffic on the interstate was heavy, but mostly because taking the back roads was what they both liked to do.

And so it was that they arrived back in Minnesota and set up their home in a farmhouse on a little hill, where she could look out and see for at least a few miles, for as beautiful as the East was with its trees and mountains and oceans it was the wide-open spaces that she still liked best.  She learned to adapt to a new way of life, where “harvest” meant soybeans and corn in September and October instead of wheat and barley in August, and where her new small town had almost 1000 people.

20070923 Watching the harvest

A few years later, new little adventurers began to enter their life, one by one, four in five years, but she didn’t really let that slow her down.  She found that it was marvelous to take these little ones out into the world, following the back roads, learning about new things, and watching the wonder in their eyes as they saw trees and prairies and great lakes and tall buildings.  She took them to some of the places she and her husband had been to in their early life together, some ten years ago, and found that some things were better remembered, but others were more treasured when experienced with children.

Gooseberry 7

And so it was that she began to write about these travels, with these little ones, and Travels with Children was born.

She hopes you’ve enjoyed taking the journey with her.

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Oct 23 2008

Finding More Fun, 10/23/08

Here’s this week’s list of places I’d love to go with my kids, and ideas for traveling with kids that I find useful:

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